Signature Scent, Part Two

About four years ago, I posted about a signature scent. You can click on that link to read the original post. At the time, I did a total splurge and had a small bottle of Chanel Coco Mademoiselle. I enjoyed that perfume. The bottle lasted me an entire year. 

Looking back, I think that the foray into such an expensive signature scent was an attempt to self-soothe or provide some level of comfort during the abuse we were experiencing from the neighbors. I remember in 2022 was when I started finding the spray-painted cats that were being used as bait by the dog fighting ring.

Due to the expense, I only had that one bottle of Coco Mademoiselle. I loved it, but I’m not about to pay for it again. Over the past few years, I have experimented with some Bath & Body Works scents again but have not found one that has really stuck with me since my Secret Wonderland era. 

To be honest, I have been craving Country Apple, but it is one of their discontinued scents. 

For Christmas, I got new socks and body lotion. I had a bottle of Champagne Honey and Apple. It was a nice scent but did not fulfill my want for Country Apple. It did not impress me enough to buy it again. 

Once the Champagne Apple bottle was gone, I ended up just grabbing a bottle of lotion from the store. By chance, I happened upon cocoa butter. I didn’t really care what type of lotion I was getting. I just needed lotion and it was on sale. 

Turns out, cocoa butter lotion is the best I have ever used. It meets my moisturizing needs in ways no other lotion ever has. I smell faintly like a piece of chocolate. It’s nice. It’s a steady, comforting smell.

Ladies and gentlemen, here is my new signature scent.

It doesn’t have to be this brand. I had a bottle of store brand cocoa butter lotion. That was fine too. Lotion is something I use every day. Having a lotion as a signature scent means one less thing I must deal with every day. No more perfume. No more worrying about getting unscented lotion so that my soap, shampoo, or lotion do not clash with the perfume. 

The lotion is the perfume. What a great minimalist concept. I have one product doing double duty.

When I grabbed that first bottle of cocoa butter lotion back in February, it was my first time ever trying cocoa butter lotion. I was missing out all these years. I always went for unscented lotion so as not to clash with whatever perfume I was wearing.

Cocoa butter lotion is much less expensive than perfume. It’s also widely available at most stores and pharmacies. I don’t need a specific brand. It has a great price point. 

I’m moisturized, hydrated, in my lane, and smelling lightly like a piece of chocolate. Perfect.

Since I have never used cocoa butter lotion before this year, it is now a positive new memory with our new house. When I smell cocoa butter lotion, I think of us being in this house where we are now safe.

Having a gentler scent seems to agree with the cats also. They don’t seem to mind the cocoa butter lotion. They did seem bothered sometimes by my perfume. Cats are sensitive to scents. 

Who knew a new signature scent would come from grabbing a random bottle of body lotion at the store? To be honest, I didn’t realize it wasn’t unscented. I just saw white bottle of body lotion, figured it to be unscented and grabbed it. I wasn’t really paying attention. I just needed lotion. What a happy accident. 

Not only does it smell nice, but its ability to moisturize is what seals the deal. I have dealt with extremely dry skin for years and tried all sorts of scent-free lotions, even the ones for eczema and ones claiming to be deep hydration. Cocoa butter wins, hands down. I wish I had known this years ago. 

My signature scent is now cocoa butter lotion. Any brand is fine. Just grab whatever is available. It’s simple and easy. 

Here’s to smelling like a piece of chocolate. It brings me joy. 

Scent Eras

A few years ago, I did a post called Signature Scent. While I still stand by the idea that I do not need 3-4 (or more) scents, the idea of only having one is a Fantasy Self. While I enjoyed Coco Mademoiselle, it made me realize that I am the type of person who prefers to have a summer scent and a winter scent. Wearing one scent all the time felt weird and got boring. 

When I ran out of Chanel, I also realized that I am not about to spend another $120 (or more!) on another bottle of perfume. I may like the idea of being someone who wears Chanel, but I can’t afford that lifestyle. I am content to say that I have had one bottle of genuine Chanel perfume in my life. I enjoyed it. 

I thought long and hard about what I wanted for a summer scent, what I wanted for a winter scent, pricing, and what that looks like. In my last post reminiscing about perfume, I was mostly thinking of the 80s and early 90s. This time, my brain went to the scent memories of the late 90s through about 2013. 

These scent memories of nearly 20 years took me back to Bath and Body Works. I did not realize how much those scents dominated my life for well over a decade. While it’s nice to take a walk down memory lane, I also realize that most of those times are not memories I want to revisit on a regular basis. I need new scents. 

However, while strolling down memory lane, I realized that the first scent I loved from Bath and Body Works was Country Apple from the late 90s. Thinking about it some more, I seem to be chasing that elusive apple smell in various forms and various ways ever since.

Country Apple was given to me as a gift at a time when I was homeless. I remember feeling so rich that I had a bottle of that apple lotion, and it was one of my most precious possessions at the time. 

Pearberry was a scent I wore for many years when I first moved from Massachusetts to New York. I remember I had eras of Sweet Pea and Moonlight Path.

Coconut Lime Verbana was a favorite for many years when I was teaching pre-school. I have lost memories of a Secret Wonderland era. Honestly, it took me a long time to remember Secret Wonderland. I’m not sure why I blocked it. Something must have happened. 

The last scent I remember having and enjoying was Forever Red. Forever Red is another era that is slightly fuzzy. Who knows what happened during those years. I’m pretty sure Forever Red was the end of my Bath and Body Works era before I switched to the Victoria’s Secret Fragrances.

In realizing that I want a summer scent and a winter scent, I figured that Bath and Body Works is the way to go as the most affordable option. They offer a wide variety of choices.

After doing my research on scents and knowing how I tend to gravitate, I have chosen Sweet Kiwi and Starfruit as my summer scent. There was a buy two – get one free sale, so I got the body lotion, body cream, and scent spray.

In doing my research on scents for winter, I am thinking of going with either Champagne Apple Honey or Ghoul Friend when they come out this fall for Halloween. We will see. I’ve been chasing that elusive apple scent for decades now. I don’t know what it is about apple. I even get apple dish soap when it’s available. 

No, I do not like Winter Candy Apple.

There are two retired scents (Be Enchanted and Bali Mango) that will be making a comeback for the Semi-Annual Sale this summer. While I am tempted by them, I don’t want scents from the past. I don’t live there. Even though I did not have either of those scents when they were out originally, I want new scents to create new memories. 

This summer I smell like a starfruit. It may not be practical, but I’m a middle-aged woman and I will smell like a starfruit if I want to. You don’t need to like it. It makes me happy. 

To be honest, there are two other summer scents I am interested in (At the Beach and Ocean), but I am resolute in keeping myself to one summer scent and one winter scent. I do not want to end up with 3-4 scents again that I am not able to use before they go sour. I did get two Ocean air fresheners as a splurge and have one in the car right now. I am enjoying it immensely. 

It was nice remembering scents I used to enjoy, but I don’t want to relive memories of those times. This summer will be my starfruit summer. Hopefully there will be some good memories for my new summer scent. 

Do you have a summer scent and a winter scent? Have you had scent eras? Sometimes a new fragrance can be a fresh start when it is connected to memory.